April 5, 2012
Counselling does not do the work. The counsellor provides some information of what appears to NOT be working and offers alternatives. Improvements happen when the client trusts the good will of their partner and themselves, commits to do The Work of improved problem solving, mutual-support and communication, and then does The Work.
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April 3, 2012
I can learn to contain and appreciate how I feel.
Authentic feelings inform us of what we want, what is important to us, what we value, what is working for us and what is not. At the same time, feelings tell little, if nothing, about other people or the external world. We need our fine brains and observation skills to figure out our external life. Feelings are experienced through the body’s systems of muscles, nerves and organs.
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