How Full is Your Bucket? – Book Summary
Tom Rath and Donald O. Clifton’s book, How Full is Your Bucket? was first published in 2004. It provides research and a delightful reminder that we all want to be seen, heard and acknowledged.
Overview:
Rath and Clifton argue that providing brief and positive interactions in work and home relationships can result in benefits such as increased productivity and well-being. Some of their research-based conclusions with millions of workers include, the main reason employees leave their job is they do not feel appreciated.
- Managers and bosses can actually increase employees’ risk of stroke as much as 33%.
- Most people (9 out of 10) report they are more productive when they are around positive people.
- Five positive interactions are required for each negative interaction to create and maintain a positive working environment. However, once positive interactions are over thirteen for each negative there is a decrease in productivity.
Basic Concepts:
- The idea of filling a bucket with a dipper is used as an analogy for offering encouragement, appreciation, and acknowledgment. Rath and Clifton encourage “filling” buckets rather than “dipping” into them—diminishing people.
- Study after study supports the idea that employees thrive better when working with or for those who inject the workplace with a positive mood rather than those who are negative and create work issues.
- It is not only OK but it’s an advantage to one’s health and work benefit to have friends at work.
- Give attention and acknowledgment unexpectedly.
- Find out how people want to receive recognition.
- Focus on what is going well.
Tom Rath Quotes:
- “So we face a choice every moment of every day: We can fill one another’s buckets, or we can dip from them. It’s an important choice — one that profoundly influences our relationships, productivity, health, and happiness.”
- “Tf you want people to understand that you value their contributions and that they are important, the recognition and praise you provide must have meaning that is specific to each individual.”
- “The magic ratio: 5 positive interactions for every 1 negative interaction”
- “Expected gifts do fill our buckets, but for some reason, receiving things unexpectedly fills our buckets just a little more.”
- “…try to catch yourself in the act of bucket dipping – then stop it.”
- “Each interaction gives us a chance to shine a light on what’s right – and fill a bucket.”
- “How full is your bucket?”
Conclusion:
A 2011/12 report by Towers/Watson National Business Group on Health called Staying@Work Survey supports Rath and Clifton’s research. Towers/Watson surveyed 335 human resources and/or health benefits managers of organizations with more than 1000 employees in Canada and the United States. Their report indicated that 64% of workers feel they lacked support from management. Thus, the problem with lack of recognition and appreciation still exists and How Full is Your Bucket? may just provide the antidote.
Note: Tom Rath and Mary Rechmeryer have written a book for children called, How Full is Your Bucket? For Kids.
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