The probability of arguing or disagreeing in a love relationship. Some describe these moments as Relationship Fighting.
Dr. John M. Gottman has trained many marital counselors from Calgary and around the world. I have met a good number of them and they all praise his work. Gottman is described as North America’s most knowledgeable researcher in the area of successful marriage. Yet, I suggest you consider his concepts as described here to […]
A phone call from Hanna, Alberta prompted me to create Merry Lovemaking: How to Enliven Long Term Intimacy. It has been presented at numerous women’s conferences and a Foster Parent retreat. The women of Hanna wanted to know how to keep a long term relationship exciting, romantic, engaging and pleasurable. Although I am not a […]
Here is exciting news for long term relationships! Dr. Eli Finkel, a professor of social psychology at Northwestern University, and his colleagues noticed that we have come to expect our spouses to fill roles traditionally filled by platonic friends such as co-workers, neighbours and friends. Our Unconscious Expectations We expect our spouse to listen, to […]